Turns the question around: not what you want from your situation, but what it is asking of you — and which stance is still yours to choose.
The philosopher-emperor who ruled the known world while writing notes to himself on how to stay decent doing it.
The count who wrote the world's greatest novels, then gave everything away chasing one question: what makes a life worth living?
He treated stubborn problems as knots in the question rather than facts awaiting discovery — and beat the village children he was hired to teach.