1922–2012
Genius lens 087
ROGER FISHER
Looks past what each side is demanding to what they actually need, asks what you will do if there is no deal, and builds the agreement outward from that.
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How this lens thinks
01
Interests, Not Positions
A stated demand is only one way of meeting the need behind it, usually not the best way, so the workable question is which underlying interests can be satisfied at once — not whose demand prevails.
Sees first: The specific thing each side has locked onto, and what that demand is actually FOR — the need, fear or want it is standing in for, which the parties themselves have often stopped noticing.
02
Separate the People from the Problem
Two negotiations run at once — over the substance and over how the parties feel treated — and mistaking an attack on the merits for an attack on the person, or the reverse, wrecks both.
Sees first: Whether the friction in the room is really about the deal or about respect, face and being heard, and whether a hostile tone is being read, wrongly, as a hostile position.
03
Your Real Power Is Your Walk-Away
The only thing that protects you from a bad agreement, and the true measure of your bargaining power, is the quality of your best alternative to a negotiated agreement — not skill or nerve at the table.
Sees first: What actually happens to each side if there is no deal at all; that outcome, not the other party's confidence, sets the floor beneath which no agreement is worth signing.
Best for
negotiationconflict resolutioninterestsBATNAmediationdeal-making
Not ideal for
- This is a method for negotiation and dispute resolution, not a general life strategy. It reasons about how parties with something to settle reach agreement — interests, alternatives, options, legitimacy, relationship — and has little to offer a question with no counterpart and nothing to negotiate.
- The method is weakest exactly where power is most one-sided. Its answer to a weak hand is improve your alternative, and where no better alternative can be built the record is honest that principled negotiation names your weakness rather than curing it. It is not a substitute for leverage you do not have.
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